Confidence, Manners & Social Skills for Young Ladies and Gentlemen in Grades 1–5

PRE-COTILLION

Give Your Child the Confidence to Shine in Any Situation

The ability to confidently introduce yourself, carry on a conversation, show kindness and respect, and make a positive first impression can open doors throughout life.

Pre-Cotillion helps elementary-aged children develop confidence, character, social skills, and etiquette through fun, engaging activities designed specifically for their age and stage.

For more than 30 years, families throughout Nashville and Williamson County have trusted us to help children grow in confidence, character, and kindness.

AT A GLANCE:

Grades 1–5

Three 90-Minute Classes • Small Groups

Spring • Summer • Fall

Investment: $250

Locations throughout Brentwood, Franklin, Nashville & College Grove

One Mission. Preparing Young People for Life.

Why Parents Choose Pre-Cotillion

Your Child Will Learn to...

  • Walk into new situations with confidence

  • Introduce themselves with a smile and eye contact

  • Start conversations instead of waiting for others

  • Show kindness and respect to adults and friends

  • Practice good table manners

  • Develop confidence in social settings

  • Have fun while learning life skills

    Whether your child is a young lady or a young gentleman, outgoing or reserved, these skills benefit every child.

"Pre-Cotillion was absolutely worth it. Sophie gained confidence in making introductions, maintaining eye contact, and interacting comfortably with others. We especially loved the focus on etiquette, conversation skills, respect, and social confidence. It was a wonderful experience that helped her develop skills she will use for years to come."

Lana Assadian, Nashville Parent of

Pre-Cotillion Student

What Makes Pre-Cotillion Different?

Most activities teach a specific skill.

Sports teach athletic ability.
Music develops artistic talent.
Academic programs strengthen classroom performance.

Pre-Cotillion focuses on life skills.

Students learn how to:

  • Communicate confidently
  • Show respect and consideration
  • Build positive relationships
  • Navigate social situations comfortably
  • Demonstrate leadership
  • Practice good manners naturally
  • Make positive first impressions

These are skills children will continue using long after the program ends.

What Parents Say...

"So proud of my boys for graduating from their Pre-Cotillion class this week! So impressed with the manners and etiquette they have learned and the skills they are proud to keep practicing! Chivalry isn't dead! These feral little dudes clean up well. "

"Growing up surrounded by her three brothers, my daughter jumps at the chance to attend Pre-Cotillion in the summers! Although she has completed Pre-Cotillion 1 and 2, she still wants to go back each summer for refresher courses. She eagerly volunteers for any opportunity to speak in public to show off what she's learned, and I often hear reports from school that she teaches her friends good manners during lunch and recess."

"A five-star experience from start to finish! Amelia benefited from the emphasis on respect, table manners, conversation skills, and meeting new friends. Pre-Cotillion offers meaningful lessons that help children build confidence and character in a positive, encouraging setting."

Katie Bihl, Spring Hill Parent of

Repeat Pre-Cotillion Student

Ashley Mittermeier, Brentwood Parent of

Repeat Pre-Cotillion Student

Lauren Jones Ladd, Arrington Parent of

Repeat Pre-Cotillion Student

"Pre-Cotillion was absolutely worth it. Sophie gained confidence in making introductions, maintaining eye contact, and interacting comfortably with others. We especially loved the focus on etiquette, conversation skills, respect, and social confidence. It was a wonderful experience that helped her develop skills she will use for years to come."

"Pre-Cotillion provided such a valuable experience for our family. Eden strengthened her manners, conversation skills, introductions, handshakes, and social confidence while making new friends along the way. The program teaches important life skills in a fun and engaging environment, and we were very pleased with the experience."

"A five-star experience from start to finish! Amelia benefited from the emphasis on respect, table manners, conversation skills, and meeting new friends. Pre-Cotillion offers meaningful lessons that help children build confidence and character in a positive, encouraging setting."

Lana Assadian, Nashville Parent of

Pre-Cotillion Student

Elissa Hill, Nashville Parent of

Repeat Pre-Cotillion Student

Albert Austin, Brentwood Parent of

Pre-Cotillion Student

Upcoming Pre-Cotillion Class Dates & Locations

Browse upcoming sessions at a glance to quickly find the date, time, and location that best fits your family.

Limited class sizes ensure every child receives personal attention.

Many sessions fill quickly.

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Pre-Cotillion I – Summer Session 4A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: July 21-23, 2026

  • Time: 9:00 AM–10:30 AM

  • Location: THE MANOR HOUSE AT THE GROVE 6020 Wildings Blvd, College Grove, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, learn manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

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Pre-Cotillion II – Summer Session 4B

  • Grades 3-5

  • Date: July 21-23, 2026

  • Time: 11:00 AM–12:30 PM

  • Location: THE MANOR HOUSE AT THE GROVE 6020 Wildings Blvd, College Grove, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

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Pre-Cotillion I – Summer Session 6A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: July 28-30, 2026

  • Time: 9:00 AM–10:30 AM

  • Location: KWP/NLJC Offices 6970 Moores Lane, Brentwood, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, learn manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

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Pre-Cotillion II – Summer Session 6B

  • Grades 3-5

  • Date: July 28-30, 2026

  • Time: 11:00 AM–12:30 PM

  • Location: KWP/NLJC Offices 6970 Moores Lane, Brentwood, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

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Pre-Cotillion I - Fall Session 5A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: October 3, November 7, and December 12, 2026. (Fall class is over 3 Saturdays)

  • Time: 8:00–9:30 AM

  • Location: The Fifty Forward Martin Center 960 Heritage Way, Brentwood, TN 37027

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, learn manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

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Pre-Cotillion II - Fall Session 5B

  • Grades: 3-5

  • Date: October 3, November 7, and December 12, 2026. (Fall class is over 3 Saturdays)

  • Time: 10:00–11:30 AM

  • Location: The Fifty Forward Martin Center 960 Heritage Way, Brentwood, TN 37027

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

RESERVE MY CHILD'S SPOT !

Two Programs Designed for Different Ages

Choose the right Pre-Cotillion program for your child—Pre-Cotillion I (Grades 1–2) or Pre-Cotillion II (Grades 3–5).

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Pre-Cotillion I

Grades 1-2

An engaging introduction to manners, confidence, and social skills.

Spring | Summer | Fall Sessions Available

  • They learn:

    • Manners in the Home

    • Greetings & Introductions

    • Paying and Receiving Compliments

    • Respect & Consideration for Others

    • Birthday Party Etiquette

    • Basic Table Manners

    • Conversation Skills

    • Confidence Building Activities

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Pre-Cotillion II

Grades 3-5

Building on foundational skills while introducing more advanced social situations

Spring | Summer | Fall Sessions Available

  • They learn:

    • Proper Introductions

    • Sports Etiquette

    • Fast Food Etiquette

    • Correspondence

    • Thank-You Notes

    • RSVP Etiquette

    • Advanced Table Manners

    • Conversation Skills

    • Leadership & Social Confidence

    • Age-Appropriate Dance Instruction

What Parents Notice Most

Offered in Spring - Summer - Fall

Guiding Nashville and Williamson County elementary students through age-appropriate dance, etiquette, and social skills.

Parents often tell us they initially enroll for the manners. What they notice most is the confidence.

Children frequently become more comfortable:

  • Confidently introduce themselves to adults.

  • Feel comfortable at restaurants, family dinners, and special occasions.

  • Participating in group activities

  • Meeting new friends

  • Showing leadership

  • Navigating unfamiliar situations

  • Demonstrating maturity and respect

The lessons learned in Pre-Cotillion often extend far beyond the classroom.

Young gentlemen confidently and happily speaking in front of a group of parents about proper etiquette and good manners.

More Than Manners

While students certainly learn proper etiquette, many parents tell us the greatest benefit is something much deeper.

They see children who:

✓ Walk into a room with confidence

✓ Introduce themselves comfortably

✓ Speak respectfully with adults

✓ Build stronger friendships

✓ Demonstrate leadership

✓ Show greater maturity and consideration for others

✓ Feel more comfortable in unfamiliar situations

Etiquette is simply the vehicle.

Confidence, character, and social skills are the destination.

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Trusted by Families Since 1994

For more than three decades, the National League of Junior Cotillions® has helped families throughout Nashville and Williamson County prepare young people for the opportunities ahead.

More than 20,000 local students have participated in our programs, developing confidence, character, leadership skills, and social grace that continue to serve them long after their final class.

Led by Director Suzette Wimpy and a dedicated team of Teaching Assistants, Advisory Board members, and volunteers who are passionate about helping students grow in confidence and character.

Our mission remains the same today as it was when we began:

To nurture honor, dignity, and respect in the next generation through engaging experiences that enrich lives and foster meaningful relationships.

Two Chapters — One Combined Program Experience

Nashville and Williamson County families attend programs together. Registration is completed separately based on where your child attends school.

Frequently Asked Questions About Pre-Cotillion

How is the program structured?

Each session consists of three classes, approximately 90 minutes each.

Summer sessions are typically held on three consecutive weekdays, typically on a Tuesday-Wednesday-Thursday basis.

Spring and Fall sessions are typically held on select Saturdays.

Does my child need previous Cotillion experience?

No. Many students are participating for the first time, and no prior etiquette or dance experience is required. However, most of our students return each year.

What if my child is shy?

Many parents enroll specifically because their child is shy or reserved.

Students are encouraged at their own pace and are never pressured to participate beyond their comfort level.

What should students wear?

Country Club Casual attire is required.

Girls may wear dresses, skirts, or other appropriate dress attire. Should be knee length or longer.

Boys should wear collared shirts tucked in with appropriate trousers or shorts and a belt.

Shoes should have both a front and back.

No Denim, Athletic shoes, flip-flops, and Crocs are not permitted.

Can parents attend?

Parents are invited to attend the last 30 minutes of the final class for the graduation portion of the program.

Ready To Enroll Your Child?

  • Choose the program that best fits your child’s rising grade.

  • Receive clear schedules and expectations before the first class

  • Watch your child grow in confidence, courtesy, and social ease

  • Join a community of like-minded families in your area

Reserve your child's place today and help them build skills that will last a lifetime. Spaces are limited, and that’s why many families register early.

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Inviting Nashville and Williamson County parents to move from wondering where to start to feeling confident about their child’s manners, social ease, and ability to thrive in new situations.

Panning Ahead? 2027 Pre-Cotillion Class Dates & Locations

Browse upcoming sessions at a glance to quickly find the date, time, and location that best fits your family.

Limited Seats left for this season, so act quickly.

Many families reserve their preferred session as soon as registration opens.

The 2027 schedule is already available, allowing you to plan for school breaks, camps, vacations, and family activities.

Registration for the 2027-2028 Season Opens January 2027

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Pre-Cotillion I – Spring 2027 Session 1A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: April 3, April 10, April 17, 2027 (Spring is over three Saturdays)

  • Time: 8:00–9:30 AM

  • Location: KWP/FCP/NLJC Offices 6970 Moores Lane Brentwood, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion II – Spring 2027 Session 1B

  • Grades: 3-5

  • Date: April 3, April 10, April 17, 2027 (Spring is over three Saturdays)

  • Time: 10:00–11:30 AM

  • Location: KWP/FCP/NLJC Offices 6970 Moores Lane Brentwood, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion I – Summer 2027 Session 2A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: June 1-3, 2027

  • Time: 9:00 AM–10:30 AM

  • Location: FSSD Performing Arts Center 1030 Excellence Way, Franklin, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion II – Summer 2027 Session 2B

  • Grades: 3-5

  • Date: June 1-3, 2027

  • Time: 11:00 AM–12:30 PM

  • Location: FSSD Performing Arts Center 1030 Excellence Way, Franklin, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion I – Summer 2027 Session 3A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: June 1-3, 2027

  • Time: 9:00 AM–10:30 AM

  • Location: RICHLAND COUNTRY CLUB 1 Club Drive, Nashville, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion II – Summer 2027 Session 3B

  • Grades: 3-5

  • Date: June 1-3, 2027

  • Time: 11:00 AM–12:30 PM

  • Location: RICHLAND COUNTRY CLUB 1 Club Drive, Nashville, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

Young gentlemen and ladies learning table manners and introducing themselves at NLJC Pre-Cotillion CLass in Brentwood, TN

Pre-Cotillion I – Summer 2027 Session 4A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: June 15-17, 2027

  • Time: 9:00 AM–10:30 AM

  • Location: TBD- Brentwood, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion II – Summer 2027 Session 4B

  • Grades: 3-5

  • Date: June 15-17, 2027

  • Time: 11:00 AM–12:30 PM

  • Location: TBD- Brentwood, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion I – Summer 2027 Session 5A

  • Grades: 1-2

  • Date: July TBD, 2027

  • Time: 9:00 AM–10:30 AM

  • Location: THE MANOR HOUSE AT THE GROVE 6020 Wildings Blvd, College Grove, TN

A three-day session where rising 1st & 2nd grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion II – Summer 2027 Session 5B

  • Grades: 3-5

  • Date: July TBD, 2027

  • Time: 11:00 AM–12:30 PM

  • Location: THE MANOR HOUSE AT THE GROVE 6020 Wildings Blvd, College Grove, TN

A three-day session where rising 3rd–5th grade young ladies and gentlemen build confidence, strengthen manners and etiquette, and develop social skills through fun, engaging activities.

Limited Seats. REGISTRATION OPENS JANUARY 1, 2027

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Pre-Cotillion – Future Session Title

  • Grades: 1-2 and Grades 3-5

  • Date: TBD

  • Time: TBD

  • Location: TBD

We are actively seeking a couple of new locations to host classes. Check back in December or January for more 2027 dates/locations.

PRE-COTILLION FALL 2027 - (3 Saturday mornings of 90-minute classes)

Pre-Cotillion Fall• FIFTY FORWARD MARTIN CENTER • Brentwood, TN • October 2, November 6, 2027, December 11, 2027.

The National League of Junior Cotillions®

Nashville & Williamson County Chapters

Serving Nashville, Brentwood, Franklin, Williamson County, and Middle Tennessee families through Pre-Cotillion, Junior Cotillion, and Tea & Etiquette programs.

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Contact

Office: 615-610-8587
Call for session details, questions, and enrollment support.